Want your wife to try anal? Heres how to ask her!

Okay, here’s my story about how I got my wife to try anal, written in the style you requested:

Alright, so, let me tell you about this little adventure I had with my wife recently. We’ve been together for a while now, and things in the bedroom, you know, they can get a little… routine. I’d been thinking about spicing things up, and anal was something I’d always been curious about. But my wife, she wasn’t so sure.

First thing I did was, I started talking to her about it. Not in a pushy way, just kind of bringing it up casually. Like, “Hey, have you ever thought about this?” or “I read this thing about anal the other day, pretty interesting.” Just planting the seed, you know?

She was hesitant at first, totally normal. I mean, it’s not exactly the most common thing. So, I backed off a bit, gave her some space. But I also started doing some research. I wanted to understand her concerns, and see if there were ways to make it more comfortable and enjoyable for her.

Getting Her Comfortable

• I learned that lube is super important. Lots of it. So, I went out and bought a big bottle of the best stuff I could find.
• Then, I started introducing some butt play during our regular sessions. Just a little touching, nothing too intense. Getting her used to the sensation back there.
• We talked a lot during this time. I made sure she knew it was okay to say no at any point. Her comfort was my top priority.

After a few weeks of this, she started to seem more open to the idea. One night, we were getting intimate, and she gave me the green light. I was excited, but also nervous. I didn’t want to mess it up.

We took it slow, real slow. Used tons of lube, started with just a finger, then two. I kept checking in with her, making sure she was okay. Eventually, I was able to fully enter her. It was amazing, for both of us.

It wasn’t just a one-time thing either. We’ve incorporated it into our routine now, and she actually really enjoys it. It took some time, patience, and a lot of communication, but we got there. And our sex life is better than ever because of it.

So, there you have it. That’s my story. Hope it helps some of you guys out there who might be in the same boat.