So, you been thinkin’, “Is he… you know?” Maybe it’s love, maybe it’s somethin’ else, but ya wanna know what he’s feelin’. I ain’t no expert, but lemme tell ya what to look for, plain and simple.
1. He Looks At Ya Differently
Now, I tell ya, when a fella’s got somethin’ special in his heart, he’s gonna look at ya like you’re the only one in the world. Ain’t just the usual glances either—it’s them long stares where it feels like he’s tryin’ to read your soul. Might seem silly, but it’s somethin’.
2. He Likes Bein’ With Ya Even Without Plans
Ya ever noticed he don’t need some big ol’ fancy plan just to spend time with ya? That’s a good sign, alright. When you can sit around, maybe just watch the grass grow or sit under a tree, and he’s just happy to be there, that’s somethin’ special. Ain’t about what you’re doin’, it’s about you just bein’ there.
3. He Listens, Like Really Listens
Now, a lotta folks think they listen, but not many do it right. If he’s listenin’ to your stories, even the ones he’s heard before, and he remembers the little bits—well, honey, that’s somethin’ good right there. Men don’t listen like that unless they care, believe you me.
4. He Tries To Understand You
Now this one’s big. If he’s makin’ an effort to understand ya—your quirks, what makes ya happy or grumpy, he’s tryin’ hard. Maybe he ain’t perfect, but he’s showin’ he cares in his own way. Sometimes he’s just as confused as you are, but if he’s tryin’, that’s a sign he’s serious.
5. He Shows Up When Ya Need Him
When life gets tough and you look around, is he there? That’s a sign, alright. He ain’t just there for the good times but sticks around when the goin’s rough. He ain’t gonna be perfect every time, but if he’s tryin’ to be there for ya, that’s a big ol’ green light.
6. He Ain’t Afraid To Be Himself
When a man loves ya, he’s comfortable bein’ himself around ya. Ain’t tryin’ to be somethin’ he’s not. He might let ya see his flaws, even if he’s a little embarrassed. If he’s showin’ ya who he really is, then he’s sayin’ that he trusts ya, and trust means love.
7. He Wants To Know All About Ya
If he’s always askin’ questions about your day, your past, what makes ya tick, well, honey, he’s into ya. Men don’t ask all them questions just for fun; they’re tryin’ to get close. So if he’s curious about ya, that’s love or somethin’ mighty close to it.
8. He Don’t Judge Ya
If he’s acceptin’ of all the bits and pieces that make ya who ya are—your quirks, your bad habits, everything—that’s a man who cares. Ain’t judgin’ ya or tryin’ to change ya; he’s just takin’ ya as you are.
9. He Respects Your Boundaries
This one’s important. A man who truly cares respects your space, your time, and what you’re comfortable with. He ain’t pushin’ ya into things you don’t like. If he respects ya, he values ya, and that’s real love talkin’ right there.
10. He Lets You Be Yourself
Real love ain’t about changin’ someone. If he’s lettin’ you be yourself, with all your quirks and odd habits, then he’s got feelin’s that run deep. He don’t want ya to act different, just loves ya as ya are.
11. He Looks Out For Your Happiness
When he’s always thinkin’ ’bout what makes you happy, even the little things, that’s a big ol’ sign. He’s not just thinkin’ about himself; he’s thinkin’ about you and what you need. Happiness shared is love in bloom.
12. He Says It—Or Shows It
Now, maybe he ain’t one for sayin’ the words out loud, but if he’s showin’ it through little actions—cookin’ for ya, lookin’ after ya, makin’ sure you’re alright—then, honey, that’s his heart speakin’. Actions are louder than words, remember that.
Conclusion
So there ya have it. Sometimes it’s plain as day if he’s really got that feelin’ for ya. Ain’t always about the big gestures, neither. It’s in the small things, the quiet moments. If he’s tickin’ off these boxes, there’s a good chance he’s got a soft spot for ya.
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